My Mom is 91- Lives in Holly Manor- she has personal service AT HOME  every day

Fidelis Care at Home
Fidelis Care at Home is a managed long term care (MLTC) product for people who need long-term care services and have or are eligible for New York State Medicaid. Members have a designated Nurse Care Manager and have the support and resources they need to help them live independently in their own homes and communities. The program is for those who are 18 or older, have or are eligible for New York State Medicaid, and are assessed by a nurse as eligible for the required level of care.

Managed Long Term Care (MLTC) is for those who are eligible for nursing home level of care, but who also can remain safely at home with the right care and support. Fidelis Care offers two MLTC programs, Fidelis Care at Home and Medicaid Advantage Plus, available in certain counties.

http://www.fideliscare.org/en-us/products/managedlong-termcare(mltc)/fideliscareathome.aspx

Find peace and love from your faith.....and ask for help from others...don't be so strong that you can't ask....

there are tools out there....and it will be hard....but the right support is what helps....stay away from negativity and don't worry about who calls, who stops

or anything else....you will be surprised that a stranger will do more good than family....

hang in there....stay focused and take CARE OF YOURSELF too....after all who needs to be healthy and strong..

God bless, stay safe.....take care.....God bless.....

Again thanking all of you for your kind words and support.

JoAnn my Dad had open heart surgery app. 6 years ago and that is when we first noticed he was different. Not the easy going guy he once was.

Went with him to the Ear doctor today and she showed me the damage done at his GPs office in his ear, where he had surgery years ago in his ear the
GPs office had some lady lavage not only his "good" ear but his bad one which is never to be touched only by a specialist. So his ear is hemoragging sp? and they have him drive miles to St. Clares (Ellis) all alone knowing about his recent Alz dxes, and he ends up wandering for over an hour in the
parking lot and then ends up in the ER with a blood pressure of 220/140. They did MRI and Cat Scan to rule out stroke. Because his BP was so high
they said his brain started to swell.

So the ear doctor shows me how the damage is healing and I look in the scope and gasp, I can't imagine how it looked weeks ago when this happened.

They had blown open were there was scar tissue from surgery over 55 years ago and left a deep laceration, that's why his ear had uncontrolled bleeding.