It's like the Jersey Shore cast wrote this!!! Pretty sure Snookie first used the term 'outercourse'.
Pathetic.
If the term is what teens use for that practice, then it probably fits that they use it. As I posted earlier, many teens don't think of oral sex as "sex".
The modern conservative is engaged in one of man's oldest exercises in moral philosophy; that is, the search for a superior moral justification for selfishness. John Kenneth Galbraith
If the term is what teens use for that practice, then it probably fits that they use it. As I posted earlier, many teens don't think of oral sex as "sex".
and using a cigar isn't having sex either.....
oral sex is avoiding 'sperm meet ovum, ovum meet sperm'
wild Willy's days in the white house has made a ripple....NOT that teens dont have terms/thoughts/dreams/hallucination/delusions of what sex is....thanks to our hormones it doesn't need encouragement....it's AAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL about self control.....but there ain't a leader out there with it....
Weiner's weiner picture President Willy's cigar Spitzer's little hooker The guy in the bathroom with his 'foot moves' Edward's 'love baby'
it's endless.......
I bet there's sexy pics of Madeline Albright around too........
who needs hollywood? oh, wait, Kennedy apparently did.....happy birthday Mr. President
...you are a product of your environment, your environment is a product of your priorities, your priorities are a product of you......
The replacement of morality and conscience with law produces a deadly paradox.
STOP BEING GOOD DEMOCRATS---STOP BEING GOOD REPUBLICANS--START BEING GOOD AMERICANS
oral sex is avoiding 'sperm meet ovum, ovum meet sperm'
wild Willy's days in the white house has made a ripple....NOT that teens dont have terms/thoughts/dreams/hallucination/delusions of what sex is....thanks to our hormones it doesn't need encouragement....it's AAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL about self control.....but there ain't a leader out there with it....
Weiner's weiner picture President Willy's cigar Spitzer's little hooker The guy in the bathroom with his 'foot moves' Edward's 'love baby'
it's endless.......
I bet there's sexy pics of Madeline Albright around too........
who needs hollywood? oh, wait, Kennedy apparently did.....happy birthday Mr. President
Good one senders!!!!!!!!!!!
When the INSANE are running the ASYLUM In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule. -- Friedrich Nietzsche
“How fortunate for those in power that people never think.” Adolph Hitler
who needs hollywood? oh, wait, Kennedy apparently did.....happy birthday Mr. President
And that's what we have controlling the teen masses now.
PP is involved in educating teens, not regurgitating sex slang they believe will 'resonate' with teen thinking. 'Outercourse' not a medical term and not a form of abstinence.
The crux of the Shen parents problem with this PP education was simply this: there is one form of abstinence and to print and distribute what teens might use as slang for abstinence is irresponsible and negligible.
The Shen parents did not say PP is necessarily bad, but to print two extra definitions of a word which has only one (abstinence) is confusing to an already confused teen audience.
The modern conservative is engaged in one of man's oldest exercises in moral philosophy; that is, the search for a superior moral justification for selfishness. John Kenneth Galbraith
Here is your origin of "outercourse" straight from the Guttmacher Institute article Family Planning Perspectives, Volume 32, Number 6, Nov/Dec 2000
"The practice of 'outercourse' in fact, was suggested by at least one physician as early as 1972 as an alternative contraception method for young teenagers. That physician, John Cobb, asserted that loosening the taboos around noncoital activity might "help significantly in the prevention of unwanted teenage pregnancy and of venereal disease."
Well, we know that outercourse is not abstinence but an alternative contraception method. Also, it still can pass on sexually transmitted diseases.
The PP did not do their research on this. The true origin of outercourse is not equated to abstinence but rather as a means of contraception...and I believe that's how many younger people see it as well.
Here is your origin of "outercourse" straight from the Guttmacher Institute article Family Planning Perspectives, Volume 32, Number 6, Nov/Dec 2000
"The practice of 'outercourse' in fact, was suggested by at least one physician as early as 1972 as an alternative contraception method for young teenagers. That physician, John Cobb, asserted that loosening the taboos around noncoital activity might "help significantly in the prevention of unwanted teenage pregnancy and of venereal disease."
Well, we know that outercourse is not abstinence but an alternative contraception method. Also, it still can pass on sexually transmitted diseases.
The PP did not do their research on this. The true origin of outercourse is not equated to abstinence but rather as a means of contraception...and I believe that's how many younger people see it as well.
If the goal of pp's teaching was to prevent the spread of std's..........then pp should be well aware that oral sex does not prevent the spreading of std's. It's just another 'vulnerable opening' if you will!!! FACT!!!
And again....the shen teachers AND students themselves confirmed that these options were recommended for those kids who wanted to be sexually active without the risk of pregnancy. It had 'nothing' to do with the spread of std's.
And again.............the taxpayers/parents/students have spoken and the school district listened!! BRAVO!!
When the INSANE are running the ASYLUM In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule. -- Friedrich Nietzsche
“How fortunate for those in power that people never think.” Adolph Hitler
The modern conservative is engaged in one of man's oldest exercises in moral philosophy; that is, the search for a superior moral justification for selfishness. John Kenneth Galbraith
Ok, we all know the different ways to say this, but how about all the different songs from the wonderful eighties that discussed it (if somewhat more poetically). Of course, this is the nineties, and you can lose your job for talking about it. Or at least you can lose your job for advocating it being taught, boy what a class that would be, as if you could do it wrong. So here's the top five. If you know of others from the eighties, I'll list them at the end Also, I don't need to hear any Michael JACKson jokes, "Beat It" was about gangs, not about what we're talking about.
VH-1's pop up videos has done a special half-hour program on "Self-Love." They have 4 out of the top 5 here, skipping only "Orgasm Addict" for Peter Gabriel's "Shock the Monkey" which isn't about masturbation anyways. They don't credit this page or anything, but I'm pretty sure it was their inspiration, as I can't imagine too many people would think of coming up with a list of this nature anyways.
Thanks to the people at the Jfiles for linking to us as a reference for their October 21, 1999 radio program. If you're visiting us because you heard the site through the radio, make sure you check the rest of the website for even more interesting info about 80s music and movies (from a US perspective).
The Top Five
5. Buzzcocks, "Orgasm Addict"
This one is like wicked obvious, so it doesn't win too many points, hence the number 5 position.
4. Billy Squier, "The Stroke"
Well, this could be about rowing "Stroke! Stroke! Stroke!" but I don't think so.
Correction from: "Eric from Philadelphia" On your Web site, you list Billy Squier's "The Stroke" as one of the biggest masturbation anthems of the 80's. But if you take a closer listen to the lyrics outside the chorus, the song is really about sleazy scouts for record labels are "stroking" him, telling him that he could be the next big thing and offer him everything under the sun. Most people do see "The Stroke" as you describe it on your Web site, but it has a deeper meaning than that.
ahh... you're right... I never listened to it too hard, actually I haven't heard it in awhile, just remember the chorus... so I pulled it out (got the album, small wonder) (and no, the pun is not intended) and you can tell that's what he's talking about if you read the lyrics off the record linear... but he definitely is using quite a bit to mislead a casual listener in there, for example:
Don't take no rhythm - don't take no style
Say you're a winner - man you're just one sinner
and my personal favorite.
You put your right hand out... give a firm handshake
but... if you read the lyrics as a whole it makes more sense the way you describe it.. especially the two lines:
Talk to me about that one big break... Spread your ear pollution both far and wide...
According to Billy Squier himself, this song has TWO meanings, both of the above mentioned. In his own words "It's much more interesting than having a song that just says 'suck my dick'."
3. Cyndi Lauper, "She Bop"
Yes, the ladies feel the need too. Don't you watch Seinfeld? Actually, VH-1's pop up videos says this was only a rumor. I do remember hearing it said that this was about female boxing in Japan when it came out. Their new comments for this video though reverse that earlier comment.
From Email: This song is DEFINITELY about masturbation! In fact, when I saw her live in '85, she played She Bop and commented afterwards: "Everybody does it... I read it in a psychology book somewhere"
From Email: Another proof of its meaning lies in the video - remember all the dancers walking around with sunglasses and canes, having gone blind.
From Email: Check out the message at the end of the video. It goes something like "In the words of ..(some French psychologist).. everybody bops." The message refers to a French doctor whose study concluded that over 85 of the French population were active masturbators.
From Email: The liner notes in "Twelve Deadly Cyns ...and Then Some" has a line from the chorus written "I hope He ^ will understand" (where my carat (^) represents the up arrow drawn in the lyrics). The line appears to refer to God, and that gives "She Bop" the singular distinction of being the only song about masturbation to bring relation to God into the issue.
From ChuckyG: At least for the eighties, until Tori Amos came along with "Icicle" on her third album, "Under The Pink" which is about her getting off with her father's choral group downstairs.
2. Vapors, "Turning Japanese"
This one is not real obvious unless your from the U.K.. Funny to hear it once you're in the know. Also funny to hear FOX play it for background music for "Mr. Baseball" promos occasionally.
1. Billy Idol, "Dancing With Myself"
This one is pretty obvious, but wins out for the "Sweat, Sweat, Sweat" refrain. Plus, I rank on Billy Idol a lot, so I feel I need to make it up to him somehow.
From Deborah Lipp: In an interview I saw, Idol said the song was about the club scene in Japan. They have mirrors set up on the walls, and kids go in and dance with their mirror image instead of with another human being; it's about isolation and dehumanization
...you are a product of your environment, your environment is a product of your priorities, your priorities are a product of you......
The replacement of morality and conscience with law produces a deadly paradox.
STOP BEING GOOD DEMOCRATS---STOP BEING GOOD REPUBLICANS--START BEING GOOD AMERICANS
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